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7 d( Z2 H4 u! H, h<H1>紅杏出墻是真愛嗎?</H1></DIV>
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<DIV class=mainNewsInfo><SPAN id=mainFontSize><A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=減小字體 onclick="newasp_fontsize(0,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/1.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>減小字體</FONT></A> <A style="POSITION: relative; CURSOR: hand" title=增大字體 onclick="newasp_fontsize(1,'mainNewsContent')"><IMG border=0 src="/images/2.gif" width=15 height=15><FONT color=#ff6600>增大字體</FONT></A> </SPAN>作者:佚名 來源:<A href="http://www.souod.com"><FONT color=#810081>搜得健康網(wǎng)搜集整理</FONT></A> 發(fā)布時間:2009-07-14 01:27:46</DIV>
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8 Y2 B+ g2 f S4 d: p<DIV id=mainNewsContent class="mainNewsContent NewsContent"><TR><TD style="PADDING-TOP: 10px" class=td_24 width="660">女人出軌原因很多,但無論如何,在動心之前要好好想一想:自己擁有的家庭真的不再是你的最愛了嗎?你與“他”的外遇是真愛還是寂寞的彌補?不要把錯覺當成真愛,否則,你會掉入一個更黑的深淵。
7 J/ K Q$ Y5 W4 a<P> 當今社會,不少婚姻變得十分脆弱,似乎有點不堪一擊。兩個曾海誓山盟的心愛之人,竟在不經(jīng)意中“紅杏出墻”。男人有外遇還理直氣壯,女人也要找出正當?shù)睦碛?,為求心安理得。女人強迫自己相信,自己是為“愛”才跟“他”外遇的?lt;/P>
( g! ^1 C; O" q<P> 因為對現(xiàn)代大多數(shù)女性來說,只要因愛出軌就沒有關(guān)系,為“性”或為其它原因出軌是不可原諒的。女人對婚姻的期望是以感情的滿足為準則的,她們渴望被關(guān)心及愛護。而在我們的社會教育中,男性是不可以輕易流露感情的,也就是說,男人表達心中的感受并不是一件容易的事。有道是“男兒有淚不輕彈”。男人在感情上不善于溝通是女人最大的失望。所以,不能滿足這種渴求,日積月累,這種被忽略的情緒就會爆發(fā)。當一位男性在此時對她表現(xiàn)出關(guān)心及傾慕時,女人往往會錯把感激當成愛而出軌,因為“他”讓你覺得自己被重視,有人愛,又回復了美麗、性感。</P>3 Z$ _+ L7 U+ k$ D
<P> 女人與男人體會的是兩個完全不同的世界。男人可以把性與愛分得清清楚楚,女人卻不能。當女人與伴侶兩情相悅時便會有靈肉合一的沖動,日久生情,產(chǎn)生依戀情結(jié)。性讓女人有愛的錯覺。即使女人當初只是為“性”外遇,而不是為“愛”,但只要不斷與性伴侶發(fā)生關(guān)系,這種依戀的情愫便會逐漸滋長,最終使女人認為有“愛”。</P>
6 w* v5 f8 a3 K _<P> 當一個女人婚姻出現(xiàn)危機時,會如饑似渴地希望找到另一伴侶來填補空虛和惶恐。充滿新鮮刺激并且無拘無束的外遇,會令她們仿佛重回少女時代。這時的女性往往分不清是激情還是真愛。</P>
# K/ K/ U- A( T& K5 m; q, S<P> 婚姻其實是一種“習慣”,要維持這種“習慣”并使之不能有“惰”性,是一個很難掌握的尺度。在婚姻中“永遠擁有”如果不被“熟視無睹”、“無須重視”所取代,那么,婚姻也許會像憧憬的一樣美好。無論男人和女人,都要警惕婚姻中的惰性,相互溝通、充滿激情才會維系彼此的吸引。 </P><A href="http://www.souod.com/"><FONT color=#810081><搜得健康網(wǎng),專業(yè)健康知識分享,為你健康保駕護航></FONT></A>
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